Hi Kev,
Hope all is well and a shoe business sounds pretty cool. Just saw / read about all the craziness with the release of the Air Jordan Retro Concords. JCHan has given you some great advice so I would listen to much of what he has said. Here are a couple other shopping solutions you may want to have a peek at:
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