Jerseygirl I feel your pain and frustration. I've been there as have the majority of entrepreneurs with a great business plan with seemingly no viable means of obtaining financing.
Have you had a chance to look over Preneuraholics.com (see below)? This new funding source launched only days ago. It is a peer to peer giving concept whereby entrepreneurs fund each other. While donors have come forth to express their desire to participate they have been asking for more projects from which to choose.
(There is still some tweaking left to complete on the site.)
There is an extensive FAQ section if you have questions or you can ask me here.
Good luck to you.
Sylvia
Affordable Business Plan Writer
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