hey nickhumpf, here is what i go by ( and i think it might help you figure out what you want to do)
everytime someone tells u they want to go thru uni to get a good job at a top company, it's okayyyy to listen to them talk, but you have to form your own opinions.
and never take their word, because
1. they aren't experts. they're just like you, albeit with different backgrounds.
2. they're not successful yet. i mean, if they've been through it, then you could take a couple of pointers from them.
3. even if they've been thru it, say someone at McKinsey for 20 years, doesn't matter what the person tells you, because you're you, and you might not be happy working at McKinsey or some investment bank

4. and if ppl don't accept your ideas of eg, not going to college etc, don't listen to them, this is a free world, you can do whatever you want. I don't mean diving into a gorge, but your decisions must be based on your own reasoning (and being older really helps in decision making)
you continue to look for opportunities, by equipping yourself with knowledge, but keep in mind always be opportunistic, when the chance comes to start the own biz of yours that will turn a profit , do it by all means.