You're in the same boat as millions of entrepreneurs -- day job, family responsibilities, and little time left to develop outside interests. There is no easy fix, unfortunately... but there are choices: a) quit day job to focus 100%, b) talk to SBA about micro-loans, c) loans from angel investors. Option c) may be best though can be tough emotionally when $$ + friends/family is involved.
Stay with it... even if you just operate it ' on the side ' it still may eventually develop into something full-time.
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